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Still a winner!

Brave Writer Instructor Jean HallTen years ago Brave Writer held a Mom’s Writing Contest and the Grand Prize Winner was Jean Hall who went on to become one of our first writing instructors (she started in 2007)!

Jean is a veteran instructor of high school students and an expert at helping students become proficient in the SAT and ACT timed writing tests. Jean teaches: Advanced Composition 1, SAT/ACT Essay Class, Expository Essay Class , and Kidswrite Intermediate.

Here is Jean’s award winning essay:

Ugly Pants

Today, I bought my daughter ugly pants.

I didn’t plan to buy ugly pants. I certainly didn’t wake up this morning thinking, “You know, what we really need around here are uglier clothes for the children. Maybe some horrible pants!”

But my 10-year-old angel has a cute smile, and she is blessed with more persuasive skills than fashion sense.

It started with an innocent family trip through Target. While my husband and the boys looked at something distinctively manly, I stood browsing the swimsuits at the other edge of the aisle with my daughter and her best friend. Suddenly, their attention was drawn further into the clothing department by a rack of knit gauchos. A point. A squeal. Suddenly, the girls were no longer at my side. I shuddered and followed reluctantly.

I should explain that I have worn gauchos before. Somewhere along the fashion timeline that defines my place in history, gauchos were stylish, although I can’t pinpoint the exact date. It was definitely between the green double knit pantsuits I wore to start kindergarten in the mid-70’s and the purple velvet harem pants I wore to start college in the late 80’s. My childhood education is with conspicuous pants in fashion at both bookends.

Where did the gauchos fall in relation to the zipper-infested parachute pants? Were they before the yoke-front Lee jeans with legwarmers? After those goofy stirrup pants? Some of the fashions blur together. They were all cool at the time. Gauchos stand out in my mind because they were a style I hated even when I was wearing them. You see, I am a little sister. I grew up in hand-me-downs. Nothing unusual about that really. But gauchos came in to style at a time I was coming into self consciousness, and I wore them 2 years after most people had moved on. Gauchos made me conspicuous. I was different. I was snickered at and I knew it. An uncomfortable place to be.

Flash forward to 2006. I’m emotionally secure, and I sometimes choose to wear hand-me-downs. I outgrew the awkward stage of student trying to fit in with the other kids (somewhat after I outgrew the gauchos). But when my little girl pulled out a pair and begged to try them on, my instinctive reaction was to scream, “NO!” I wanted to tell her how truly dreadful those are. No daughter of mine is going to be seen in public in those.

But I didn’t. Because in that 10-year-old girl asking me for a pair of pants that I hated, I saw a quickly growing young lady with an overwhelming sea of decisions to make in her lifetime. In a few years, she could be choosing a wedding gown, not to mention a man to stand next to her in a tux. She will choose a college, a career, a church, a home, an identity. I want her to make those choices with the confidence and skill that comes from practice.

But there was more to it than just letting her learn to make choices. Within me, I have a strong moral code, a set of values, a standard I want to instill deeply in my children which will benefit them. I also have quirks, prejudices, and emotional hang-ups which will not. I want to teach my daughter, but not to force this matchless child into a me-shaped mold. My personal hang-ups are irrelevant to her. Why should she hate these pants because of my bad memories? That makes no more sense than teaching her to hate basketball because my coach benched me during a tournament, or to hate Jeeps because my ex-boyfriend drove one. These are not helpful guidelines for her.

My daughter adored the gauchos. And I told her she was beautiful in them, which she was. I chose not to burden her with my baggage; I’ll carry it myself. I separated her individuality from mine. It was the bravest thing I’ve done in awhile.

I will let her walk away from me as her own person. She will walk away with her own preferences and passions. Her own quirks. Her own hang-ups. Her own sense of style.

And her very own ugly pants.

____________________

Jean’s 2016 postscript to her essay: My daughter, now 20, still has a sense of personal style and a confident sense of who she is. She’s made most of the decisions I mention in the essay…except she walked away from the man she first wanted to marry because he insisted that she change to be more like him. And she said no. So I think that the goal I set out in the essay can be stamped successful.

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Brave Writer Staff Retreat 2016!

Brave Writer Staff Retreat 2016

Deb Bell, Susanne Barrett, Lora Fanning, Jeannette Hall, Alicia Havens, Joy Sherfey
Sarah Holden, Jean Hall, Kirsten Merryman, Cindy Clark, Jen Holman, Lucy Olsen, Nicole Rae
Nancy Graham, Rita Cevasco, Julie Bogart, Karen O’Connor, Angela Harris

First Brave Writer Staff Face-to-Face

by Nancy Graham

California, Kentucky, New York, Maryland, Minnesota, Oregon, Texas, and Utah. (One day we may be as international as our students…)

Julie said, “I feel like I’m giving myself the biggest present!” Can you imagine building a company of more than 20 people over a period of 15 years and finally seeing everybody in one room all at once? What a party!


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There was a goody bag for each teacher with treats that included the highly recommended book Vernacular Eloquence by Peter Elbow (affiliate link) and a necklace that reads “live honestly write bravely.”

After Julie told us the story of how Brave Writer evolved from its beginnings as a workshop in 1997, we got down to the business of talking about what we do and how we can do it better. We also shared bits of writing we brought in from our classes. Of course that was a highlight—we laughed, we cried, and we clapped hands for all the Brave Writers that make this work so rich and inspiring for all of us.

Brave Writer Staff Retreat 2016

One of our top priorities in the coming year is figuring out the best way to share more of this writing more widely. It’s too good to keep to ourselves! We also started a list of alternatives to the word “teacher” in hopes of arriving at a better name for our role in the life of the writers in our program. We’ll be sharing those, too.

A few things you would have learned about Brave Writer teachers if you’d been a butterfly outside the window: Susanne writes with a quill and a pot of ink, Alicia is one of three Brave Writer teachers to have lived in Morocco, Angela runs a family alfalfa business on the side, Lora mothers seven kids, Deb knows a hilarious trick for responding to someone who wants to know how you feel, Sarah plays the oboe, Jean can scope out the best pajamas, Lucy has a daughter in Madagascar, Kirsten Periscopes with her daughter Olivia, Jen’s smile could light a city, Joy’s hair could light another, Nikki loves life in Portland, Karen has written more than 80 books, and Nancy dances like a mighty goofball.

Brave Writer Staff Retreat 2016

You should also know that our head of operations, Cindy Clark, never stops smiling or asking others what she can do for them, that our brand strategist Tia Levings is willing to get scratched up in the bushes for a good photo, and that our social media wonk, Jeannette Hall, wears kitty slippers and bunny ears when the mood strikes.

We did a whole lot of planning, too, putting our noggins to work on new courses and publications and—well, you’ll just have to wait!

You get the idea: three days of ideaphoria, celebration, bighearted conversation, silliness, poetry teatime, dishrag dancing, and chatty noshing.

Sounds like home, right?

Till next time!

Brave Writer Staff Retreat 2016

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Friday Freewrite: Puzzled

Friday Freewrite: Puzzled

Write about something that puzzles you.

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The Enchanted Education for Teens

Enchanted Education for Teens

Pixie Dust for Teenagers!

How do we bring the energy of enchantment to teens?

  • What does it look like for engaged learning in high school?
  • How do we prepare our teens for college while indulging their curiosities and passions?
  • What do we do with teens who claim to be bored?
  • How do we know we’re doing enough?

Watch the scope below (now on YouTube!) and find out:

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Check-In from Our Movie Club

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Outlaw Readers and the Power of Words

by Nancy Graham

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Brave Writer movie clubs draw a robust and enthusiastic bunch of cineastes. Our conversations call for close observation of composition, camera movement, light, sound, music, and performance. Naturally, we also look at literary elements such as story, theme, character, and narrative voice—so movie clubs prepare the participants for literary analysis as well as media literacy!

We had three movie clubs in a row this spring at Brave Writer—Monster Mash, Enchanted April, and the one that just wound up: Outlaw Readers and the Power of Words. For this last club we viewed and discussed four movies—all of them adapted from novels—set in times and places in which reading is forbidden in one way or another. The first three dealt with book burning as a strategy of oppression and censorship: The Book Thief, set in Nazi Germany; Nightjohn, set in the American antebellum south; and Fahrenheit 451, set in an imagined future in which firemen rout out books and burn them. In our final movie, Dead Poets Society, a band of young men at an elite prep school have their love of poetry ignited by an unconventional teacher, inspiring them to meet for midnight poetry readings and make choices that defy the expectations of their parents and the school administration.

We have such great conversations in our movie clubs. Below are some thoughts from some Outlaw Readers club members, ending with a couple of intriguing questions for you to mull over.

Timothy (age 15) on The Book Thief:

When I close my eyes I see the scene were the car is driving along in the snow, there is nothing there it is like the car is driving along on a blank sheet of paper, there is nothing written on it no trees no houses not even a smudge of a road, a blank world. The scene is sort of like her new life, she is driving away from the old one to the new one, it is blank, waiting for her to start again from the start she has new parents, a new house and new friends. The only thing she has from her old life is a picture of her brother. Everything else is left behind.

Julio Wagner (age 16) on Nightjohn:

I think that the literacy of slaves was considered dangerous because if a slave knew enough as much as their master/owner did, they would have a sense of control and free will about them, as I think John displays in the movie. And it’s that last bit of idea that led me into this next one. The moving scene where John is punished and after starts writing in the dust with a stick. John says, “A, stands up on its two feet…” It’s that saying that really stands out to me, as it shows strength and will power for the will and commitment of acquiring knowledge.

Olivia Vazquez (age 10) on Fahrenheit 451, in which characters save books from burning by memorizing, therefore “becoming” them:

If I had to choose one book to save, I would choose “I’ll Give You the Sun” by Jandy Nelson, which is a story about twins who drift apart. This is one of my favourite books because it switches from one point of view to another over the course of a few years, and I like how the characters evolve throughout the story. Although I would rather save this book, the book I would most like to become is “Beauty” by Robin McKinley because I like the way it is written and because it possesses poetic qualities. “Beauty” retells the story “Beauty and Beast” and is about Honour (widely known as Beauty), who was once rich then tragedies made her life take a drastic turn.

Josie (age 18) on Dead Poets Society:

I think what Mr. Keating teaches his students is important because of the culture of conformity in the school. There was definitely a lot of pressure on the boys—from both their parents and schoolteachers—to do what was asked of them, and live up to the expectations and wishes of the society they lived in. Mr. Keating taught the students that they could “seize the day” and take control of their own lives. He taught that there can be more to poetry than simply memorizing or studying it.

The conflict between Mr. Keating’s independent, free-thinking philosophy and the high-pressure culture of the school and parents comes to a climactic point late in the movie. One of the students, Neil, kills himself as a response to his father’s demands that he quit acting, a pursuit he is passionate about. The school tries to explain this by saying that Neil’s death was the result of Mr. Keating and the Dead Poets Society, who inspired Neil to try acting. This results in Mr. Keating being fired from the school, and the students gathering in a last show of support as he leaves. I think this is important because it shows that, in the end, Mr. Keating did have an impact on his students.

Ivy Favier (age 15) on the feeling of being moved…

I loved how the last boy to understand Mr. Keating was the first to stand up for him. Though it took him the longest to show it, I think that he was the one who most understood the importance of what Mr. Keating stood for; to be who they want to be and to live life fully, while they still can.

Wow. That was a powerful scene. It made me cry and laugh at the same time. And it gave me that feeling… I’m not quite sure how to describe it… Chills going up my spine. I got that same feeling in Nightjohn, when Sarny told all of the slaves their worth, and when John kept writing after he lost his finger, right when he said that A stands on its own two feet. I also got a little bit of that feeling when Liesel and Rudy shouted “I hate Hitler!” I always seem to get that feeling whenever someone in a film does something extremely brave and meaningful, like in those moments I described. The only way I can think of describing that feeling is the chills running down my back, and sometimes laughing and crying at the same time. How would you describe this feeling? What adjectives would you use to describe it?

The next movie club’s theme: Magnificent Horses! Starts July 25th! Movie Discussion Club

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