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The podcast transcripts are all here! You asked for them, we promised, and now we’re delivering. 📬

We’ve been including them one by one on the Brave Writer blog and now you can enjoy ALL of the transcripts for the Ask Julie podcasts.

Print them out, highlight the parts you like, make notes in the margins—or stash them in a folder for the next time you need a pop of inspiration.

Transcripts for the Season Five podcasts:

S5E1: Embracing Elements of Home with Tammy Kim
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S5E2Growing a Mind & Cultivating Curiosity with Christa Gregg
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S5E3What About Technology? with Lindsay McCarthy
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S5E4Checklist Lovers – Planning From Behind with Jennifer Vetter
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S5E5When Learning Isn’t Fun with Anne Trott
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S5E6Community is Self-Care with Jennifer Hunter
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S5E7Finding a Balance in High School with Karen Goldstein
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S5E8Cultivating Connection in a Large Family with Jardel Manalo
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S5E9Awesome Adulting with Jessica Hammond
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S5E10Prepping Your Teen for Adulthood with Myah St. John
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S5E11Breaking Free from Multitasking with Courtney Moyer
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S5E12Routines, Chaos, and Big Goals—Oh My! with CO Springs Homeschool Mamas Group
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Podcast: The Complete Season Five

Brave Writer Podcast: Season 5 Recap

If you missed any Ask Julie podcast episodes, here they are in one convenient place so that you can listen (or re-listen) to them whenever you want.

THANK YOU for making Ask Julie the amazing podcast season that it was! Thanks to you, we’ve now gone well over a million downloads. What a milestone! We appreciate all the incredible review love you’ve shown us as well.

Let’s give a big round of applause to each Ask Julie guest. Thank you for offering us a glimpse into your lives and your individual challenges.

Tune in to the Brave Writer podcast on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher (or your app of choice), and here on the Brave Writer blog.

Season Five Podcasts

Free transcripts are available for the episodes! Just scroll to the bottom of the following blog posts for the PDF download links.

S5E1Embracing Elements of Home with Tammy Kim

S5E2Growing a Mind & Cultivating Curiosity with Christa Gregg

S5E3What About Technology? with Lindsay McCarthy

S5E4Checklist Lovers – Planning From Behind with Jennifer Vetter

S5E5When Learning Isn’t Fun with Anne Trott

S5E6Community is Self-Care with Jennifer Hunter

S5E7Finding a Balance in High School with Karen Goldstein

S5E8Cultivating Connection in a Large Family with Jardel Manalo

S5E9Awesome Adulting with Jessica Hammond

S5E10Prepping Your Teen for Adulthood with Myah St. John

S5E11Breaking Free from Multitasking with Courtney Moyer

S5E12Routines, Chaos, and Big Goals—Oh My! with CO Springs Homeschool Mamas Group

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Brave Writer Podcast: Routines, Chaos, and Big Goals—Oh My! with CO Springs Homeschool Mamas Group

Brave Writer Podcast: Ask Julie

Can you believe this is the final episode of the Ask Julie series?! I’ve read the feedback from everyone who’s written in, or left an Apples Podcast review, and I’m deeply touched to hear how this series has resonated with you—the listeners!

Let’s give a big round of applause for each guest! Their vulnerability and bravery has been such a gift to all of us!

Today’s episode is a unique format—a homeschooling group of friends asked to be interviewed together. Each interviewee came with her own quandary.

Brave Writer Podcast: Ask Julie

We tackled problems ranging from checklist anxiety and handwriting problems to homeschooling while personal life is in upheaval.

Tune in to find out:

  • Why you only have to get it “mostly right” (in homeschool AND in life)
  • How connection attracts and completes checklists
  • Tips & tricks for managing your expectations
  • How YOU are the catalyst for changing the learning environment in your home

Mandy Houle asks: What about pen and paper work for a young, exuberant extrovert?

Mandy’s seven-year-old son is energetic, friendly, and generous – but it’s a challenge getting him to sit down long enough to write.

A lot of us run into this issue as our children get to the point where we feel they’re “supposed” to be writing, but it’s important to remember that this is the very beginning of a young person’s writing life; it takes from ages 8 to 18 to become a fluent writer.

Julie’s advice:

  • You could do Jot It Down! for another whole year, no handwriting on his part, and he’d still be fine.
  • Give him writing incentives like different colored pens or a special notebook he can pick out.
  • Go to tracing rather than writing. You write the sentence first and ask him to trace your words.
  • You could jot down his stories and ideas, type them in a document, and print them out for him to trace.
  • Get his whole body involved! Give him a sentence of copywork and ask him to use chalk to write as many of the words as he can on your driveway, or tape a huge piece of butcher paper on your wall and ask him to write big with his whole arm instead of having to use his tiny motor muscles.

Brave Writer Podcast: Breaking Free from Multitasking with Courtney Moyer

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Do you spend your waking hours multitasking, only to end the day exhausted, wondering what you accomplished? Discouraging, right?

Today’s podcast guest of honor, Courtney Moyer, wrote to me asking, “Julie, how do I multitask while teaching multiple children at multiple levels with multitudes of housework?”

I’ve been there! I remember the shoes scattered down the hallways, math books lost under the couch, and the crying baby who needed me to stop everything to breastfeed. Homeschooling can feel like it’s at the bottom of the list when your LIFE is so demanding!

I’d like to help you get out of this rut. Ready? First suggestion: Stop Multitasking!

Ha! Let’s talk about how to end the madness and find peace and progress in the middle of the muddle.

First, let’s explore my favorite maxim: “Less is more.” How will this shift in how you live and think change your life?

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Listen to today’s episode to learn:

  • How multitasking affects your brain in negative ways
  • Why you need to shift to a “less is more” mentality
  • Ways to immerse yourself into your homeschool to boost productivity
  • How to personalize the learning adventure for your children AND for yourself

Make sure you listen to the recap at the end to hear how Courtney incorporated my advice. She did such an incredible job! Now Courtney approaches learning with a fresh, positive perspective and bubbly enthusiasm! I want that for you, too. I hope this episode leaves you feeling energized and empowered.

What about multitasking?

Let’s talk about multitasking and the brain.

For starters, multitasking is not handling multiple tasks simultaneously, as most of us believe; multitasking is the act of shifting between tasks, and it is the switching quickly between tasks that is exhausting. It uses up oxygenated glucose in the brain, burning the same fuel that’s needed to focus on a task. As a result, people who multitask tend to eat more and drink more caffeine, but what they really need is a break.

Gloria Mark, Professor in UCI’s Department of Informatics, conducted a study called “The Cost of Interrupted Work,” in which she found a number of interesting things about multitasking and productivity:

  • When people are interrupted, it typically takes them 23 minutes and 15 seconds to return to their original task.
  • We’re deferring our gratification when we multitask because we never have that satisfying feeling of a completed task.
  • When it comes to long term projects, you should only spend 25 minutes to 2 hours of focused attention at a time (as adults). Spending less than 25 minutes on a challenging or long term task doesn’t give us a sense of accomplishment—we always feel behind.

What we can learn take away this study, as homeschoolers, is that we can’t hover over our homeschools; we need to sink down into them.

Poetry Teatime is an example of everyone being “on task” without feeling any guilt. It’s a moment of respite where we can drop down into the experience, and that is what creates momentum in homeschool: having satisfying depth, noticing that depth, and giving ourselves credit for that moment before moving on.

Most of us believe we need to do seven subjects a day, on weekdays, and during certain hours, based on the school model we were raised with. But what would it look like if our days were segmented differently as home educators? What would happen if we thought about the subjects not as something to get through, but as accomplishments based on exposure to information?

Skill development is important, but how do we quantify skill development? Is it based on a quantity of pages? An amount of time? Or are we looking at the skill as a part of development towards a bigger picture end goal?

Sometimes we’re so caught up in the daily details that we forget the overarching goal and that we have an entire school year.

Julie’s Advice

  • Rotate children, rotate subjects, and remember to stick with short & strong bursts of energy, like 15-minute bursts.
  • You can start your day with a morning routine or some group activity together so that all kids are included.
  • Instead of a daily amount of time with all of your kids where you’re really focused, set aside dedicated time to focus on just one child every day, and it doesn’t have to be evenly distributed. You can rotate based on need, not on a system.
  • You’re allowed to have “homeschool light” on weeks where one child needs more attention.
  • Break free of the Monday-Friday schedule, break free of any rigid timelines, and allow yourself to have flexibility and freedom. Remember to “drop down” into the experience of learning.
  • We need to allow space for the learning to sink in. Give your child time to do the work, and to come out of it and be aware and proud of that experience.
  • The practice IS teaching, so trust the practice. If they understand the principle but are making mistakes, the practice is teaching them. If you allow some distance between their first effort and when they correct it, their brains unconsciously teach them what they need to know.
  • Focus on growth and strength, rather than fear of doing something wrong.
  • Take a deep dive with one child at a time to create momentum and powerful shifts in learning and energy. Taking a deep dive for an hour teaches so much more than the fragmented, multitasking approach over a week (and going somewhere and adding a special treat always helps). This is your anchor time.
  • Remember that the one-on-one time can be a chance to revisit certain education areas in a positive and empowering way.
  • Record on your calendar when the anchor times happen, with the name of the child. You can prove to yourself that you’re giving this sacred time to your children.
  • Organizing the day into chunks of dedicated time will eliminate some of the overwhelm. Focus on segmenting the day into these three containers: Activities, Housekeeping, and Education.
  • Minimize your energy, maximize your opportunities. For example, set aside a bin for items that need to be put away, then toss things in there and forget about them until their dedicated time.
  • There is no formula. All there is is the collective wisdom and insight from our community of homeschoolers.

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Brave Writer Podcast: Prepping Your Teen for Adulthood with Myah St. John

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They grow up too fast. We hear that ominous statement the moment our first precious bundle arrives in our arms, but we realize its weight when that child becomes a teen! Talk about growing pains, right?!

Our podcast guest of honor, Myah St. John, wrote to me asking, “I’ve always loved the one-room school house model, but I find it slipping away. We need to meet my teen’s high school requirements, and also the needs of my younger children…Can you help?!”

In this podcast episode we discuss strategies for:

  • Rekindling an enchanted education with your teen.
  • Easing into your family’s evolving dynamic — without losing your mind!
  • Embracing the discomfort of accommodating a teen testing limits.
  • Allowing your teen to test-drive adulthood outside the home.
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Tune in to hear how Myah applied my advice and whether it worked for her family.

What about preparing a child for adulthood?

High school is a “re-upping” moment, an “It All Counts Now” moment, when we have to reevaluate how our efforts support the education that will be scrutinized by college admissions or hiring managers. As homeschooling parents, that’s our challenge.

But our children are also facing new obligations and their own challenges – figuring out an academic path to college, or the path to a job – and they need to figure out who they are, at least somewhat, before they can do that.

So, during these teen years, there will also be a transition in the family dynamic as your teen is individuating. They join us when they’re little, but now we join them, gradually, as they become an adult.

This won’t be easy, your children may surprise or confuse you, but it’s part of the process of becoming an adult that we’re here to prepare them for. Furthermore, it will take imagination and creativity to help your teenager prepare for adulthood, both academically and personally.

Remember, there are four principles for what makes education feel magical: Surprise, Mystery, Risk, and Adventure.

Risk and adventure appeal the most to teens, and when you allow your kids to have more bandwidth in their intellectual curiosity, what they’re hearing at home can actually become more valuable to them.

Julie’s Advice

  • Be aware. Notice and make notes of when your child shows up as her own person – then celebrate that, even if it’s just an internal celebration!
  • Ask your child about their ideas for adventure and then create opportunities for your child to explore them. Be willing to be uncomfortable, and embrace the discomfort of accommodating a developing mind.
  • Issue invitations rather than requirements. Let your teen have a collaborator role as she’s becoming more self-reliant by giving her more chances to say yes instead of no. It has to be a choice that is given to her.
  • Look for ways your teen can experience collaborative learning, where her ideas are sidling up to peers and professors, to give her a sense of what an intellectual community feels like. Some way for her to test drive her own personality & intellect outside the family, such as a co-op, classes, camps, or a part-time job outside the home.
  • Allow your teen to introduce their interests to you. Going on the journey with them is far superior to trying to control them away from it. Connection and trust comes from listening to their interests.

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