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Visiting the Art Museum

Visiting the Art Museum

When we recommend going to art museums, sometimes parents wonder what it’s got to do with writing. Isn’t art its own course of study? Why would Brave Writer specifically promote it?

I promote the enjoyment and study of art because a visual vocabulary is critical to a verbal one. We’re primarily stimulated every day through sight. As we observe the world around us, we form impressions that inform our attitudes, beliefs, preferences and habits. Art uses a visual vocabulary to communicate. We’re awed by the precision of strokes (to an almost photographic accuracy) in some paintings and then moved by the blurry soft edges of impressionism that tend to evoke a mood more than provoke a compliment. We see color manipulated to create atmosphere, we observe other times and eras (habits of dress, style of architecture, expanse of nature). We get to see style (we can compare and contrast artists within one era, and we can compare and contrast artists of different eras).

These encounters are different than nature or TV or flipping through a photo album. Artists are deliberate in ways similar to authors.

  • They select the point of view.
  • They edit the scene in front of them, choosing what to paint and what to exclude.
  • They pull from a palette of colors like authors draw from a lexicon of language.
  • They tell a story through images.
  • They create pathos or joy, indignation or peace.

And all we have to do is stand and look carefully, allow the painting to speak through its images.

For writing, having a rich visual vocabulary is just as important as having a big word-filled one. Words help to express images and images give rise to words. They partner together to create meaning.

A trip to an art museum also offers visuals to go with some of the legendary stories of our collective history. Together, paintings partner with language to create new levels of appreciation.

What follows, then, is a window into how frequent trips to the local Cincinnati Art Museum enhanced our home education.

Be not intimidated! Get the stroller and go. You’ll be glad you did.

2005

One thing I love about Cincinnati is that the art museum isn’t that far away. We went to it yesterday for the afternoon. We’ve been many, many times. As we walked in the door, Liam exclaimed, “I love that Chihuly chandelier.” Jacob added, “I could look at it every day.”

We made our way into the Greek and Egyptian displays and Caitrin noticed that they had rearranged them. She went on to point out which of the vases she liked best compared to last time. Liam wanted to stop and look at each of the hieroglyphs again.

We moved on and went into an exhibit that was put up by Proctor and Gamble – all Cincinnati art. I honestly didn’t recognize the exhibit but the kids did. They started reminiscing about the pieces they had loved the last time we’d been there. We marveled at the quality of the artwork. Later we found an entire exhibit devoted to Frank Duveneck (Cincinnati native) and were thrilled to see all his paintings together. That was new.

We made our way upstairs to see the Monets that are on loan from Paris and were blown away by the size and colors. Caitrin immediately told me the story of why this particular “Bridge at Giverny” was so hard to see close-up – “because Monet lost his eyesight as he got older and he would make paintings that were less and less realistic as a result.” She pointed out how much the bridge showed up if we were at the back of the room compared to up close when we could see each swirl of the brush up close.

Liam reminded me of the “Linnea in Monet’s Garden” book we had read and Jacob remembered the movie we had checked out from the library. We were amazed that the Cathedral at Rouen was so dull close up and so vibrant at a distance. You could see the source of light behind it and it glowed from across the room.

We walked into the modern art exhibit and all agreed again that we don’t like modern art, except that I really like Mark Rothko. Rothko asserts that he isn’t interested in form, line, or color but in creating emotions. He says that he knows he communicates because when people look at his work, many report that they cry. Jacob, who couldn’t remember who Rothko was when I spoke of him last week, was eager to see our Cincinnati Rothko. He didn’t cry. He didn’t understand why anyone would. I didn’t cry either, but I did feel this weird surge in my chest.

Liam wanted to see a real Van Gogh so I took him to the only one in the museum. He remembered it then and commented that, “That guy must really have liked paint. I like his blue.” Caitrin added, “He uses globs of it. It’s nice to see the real painting so we can see the globs up close.” We wished for a Van Gogh exhibit to come to Cincinnati.

Our favorite rooms were closed for renovation. We were sad. So we went to other rooms we frequent less and noticed all the Italians. We discussed the benefits of great art being dispersed throughout the world rather than collected all in one town. We talked about why the Italians artwork was so much more dramatic than the British in the room next door. We shuddered in front of a boyish, rosy-cheeked David holding the recently severed head of a bloody Goliath.

We ended up in front of a painting that showed a woman deranged with a pale face, flowers dripping down her white gown, restrained by a man in a renaissance costume. They stood before a queen in anguish and a king with his face in his hands. Jacob called out, “Mom, this is from Hamlet! That’s Ophelia.” And it was. The man was Laertes, her brother. Apparently this artist had wanted to make a series of Shakespeare paintings to display together in England, but the project failed and the pieces he painted have been bought up by a variety of art connoisseurs. This painting is the first to have been purchased for the Cincinnati Art Museum and its purchase preceded the museum’s construction by about five years.

It was a great afternoon. And it was fun to see that repeated visits yielded so much in my kids.


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It’s Autumn! Time to do fall stuff.

25 Homeschool Ideas for Fall

We made a list of things to do in the summer and one of our BW moms asked me to make one for fall.

  1. Of course buy pumpkins and carve/decorate them. You can use those big quilting pins to pierce the pumpkins so that you can cut colored paper and pin ears, eyes, mouths, if you prefer (a Mr. Pumpkin Head ala Mr. Potato Head).
  2. Make a chart that tracks the color changes of leaves on one of your trees. Sharpie mark several leaves with numerals. Then each day, record how the colors change for each one. Do you see speckles? Streaks? Shading shifts from left to right or top to bottom? Bring your colored pencils and compare colors to the leaves and then name the colors (goldenrod, chartreuse, ruby).
  3. Serve hot apple cider during your teatime/poetry for the months of October and November.
  4. Rake leaves for a neighbor while that neighbor is at work. Leave pumpkin muffins and an anonymous note. Don’t ever say who raked the yard.
  5. Jump on the trampoline and take flying photos.
  6. Hike to a creek with your dog.
  7. Stay out late and look at the moon once per week. Draw it and notice how the shape changes over the course of a month.
  8. Borrow a telescope and find Saturn.
  9. Create a nature’s table where you collect and display fall-ish items: acorns, acorn hats, moss on bark, dried colored leaves, scented candles, little pumpkins or gourds, blond hay stalks, dried corn, pebbles. We like to add little figurines like Half Penny Dolls. Lego figures work too.
  10. Read and write poems about the fall.
  11. Use sidewalk chalk to create hopscotch (look up various versions on the Internet and try them all).
  12. Volunteer at a homeless shelter and serve.
  13. Roast marshmallows in the fireplace.
  14. Peel an apple in one long peel using a pocket knife.
  15. Bake pies (try new ones like rhubarb, or old ones in a new way – pumpkin using a real pie pumpkin, not canned).
  16. Shake whipping cream in a glass jar with a marble until it become butter. Take turns shaking during read aloud time.
  17. Dye fabric with natural foods: beets to make purples, red onions for reds, tumeric for yellows. Muslin works great. You can make bean bags or little quilted pot holders with the resulting fabrics.
  18. Find out how to play cornhole. (Cincinnati specialty!) Then make one and try it.
  19. Take a bird watching hike (bring binoculars and a field guide). You can sometimes sign up at local nature preserves or parks too.
  20. Toss the old pigskin around!
  21. Buy a candle making kit and make the candles (or paper making or soap making).
  22. Clean the messiest space in your house, then scent the room with lavender.
  23. Spend an evening eating popcorn, drinking cider, and reading silently as a family in front of the fire. Turn the TV off.
  24. Go to a local festival.
  25. Invite college students or adults living alone to an evening of soup, bread and games (like Apples to Apples). Fall is a great time to care for shut ins or kids who have moved away from home.

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Shift the Power

Balancing perspectives

Remember: the best educational environment is one where everyone is moving in the same direction, with similar levels of enthusiasm. Not everyone has to “love” writing, but it helps if resistance is lowered. So let’s work on that!

Power Dynamics in Home Education

Let’s talk about the power dynamics in families. There’s no question “who’s in charge” in a family. Kids know. Parents know. Adults carry the responsibility so they have the power.

Knowing we are in charge, we often use that power to run our families and homeschools. We set out the expectations of what is to be done and then we expect respectful cooperation. When our kids don’t share the same goals and don’t have the same instincts, many parents assume the child is in rebellion or is willful. (Books have been written to illustrate this point.)

Kids who don’t share the same goals or perspective, instead, will assume their parents are mean and don’t understand kids. (Kids wish they had written books to illustrate this point.)

There is an imbalance between the perspectives of parents and children (one has books with studies to support its viewpoint and the other doesn’t—all kids have is whining, crying, ignoring and acts of passive aggression). This imbalance can create havoc for the homeschooling parent who hopes her child will write one day. Kids might believe that the parent’s insistence that they write is another one of those power-plays designed to meet adult needs while ignoring the viewpoints of children.

When one group experiences itself as marginalized (not able to express its views in a way that makes contact with the powers-that-be and causes change) and the other group experiences itself as in power with the ability to coerce compliance, crankiness has the chance to fester and develop into full-blown rage or disinterested passivity (the “I surrender” stance).

For some reason, working on writing causes the power struggle to show its full colors. Kids have a knack for resisting parental input when it’s related to the writing they do. Their writing is the one space that children try to protect from parental control—writing equals “who I am” and as a result, they want their writing to be accepted as is, punctuation mistakes and spelling errors included.

If we want to see crankiness replaced by joy (since it is my contention that joy is the best teacher there is), we have to shift the power dynamics. We need to hear our marginalized poor, our “oh-so-powerless” kids. We have to “divest” ourselves of our power and serve our kids.

Here are some sure fire ways to move from first to last so your kids can move from last to first:

1) Apologize.

I remember at one seminar encouraging the parents to rub their kids’ shoulders before a freewrite. A mom’s hand shot into the air. She couldn’t believe it! Just that morning, her son had asked her to rub his shoulders, before he started writing. She told him, “This is school. This is not play time. I’m not rubbing your shoulders. You should get to work and stop dilly-dallying.” Lightbulb! She suddenly saw. Unwittingly, she had undermined his success in writing that morning. Say you’re sorry. Then start over, together.

2) Take the same risks your kids take.

When they write, you write. Freewrite once in awhile when they do. Risk sharing your writing so that they can hear and read it. Respect and honor the process you are asking them to engage in. You will sympathize with their efforts if you have experienced the same kinds of blocks and blanks that they experience with writing from time to time. And the biggest bonus of all: you’ll learn how you break through stuck places so you can share those insights with your kids.

3) Ask permission.

Your child is not just a writer, but an author. Authors deserve final control over their writing. Let your child know that the input you offer is optional and that you won’t give unwanted input. Discuss artistic choices. Then let the writer decide which of these artistic choices she prefers to make. If you take this approach with all writing (personal, academic, assigned), over time your child will come to value and ask for your input. Trust me.

4) Ask for your child’s writing goals.

Your child may tell you up front that he has no goals for writing. If that is the case, you can share the goals you have for your writing… and then pursue them, right in front of your child. “Wait honey. I’m working on that piece about gardening for my online community, remember? I’ll be right with you. Hey can you listen a minute—how does this sound?” I know you have goals for your children’s writing. We’ll discuss that at another time. Right now we are working toward unhooking the power struggle.

If your child has goals (such as, wanting to start a live journal or wants to write a short story or is interested in learning how to write poetry in calligraphy), talk about ways that you can support your child in reaching those goals. Do they need more time on the computer? Do they need a book about story writing? Can you purchase a set of pens and offer a book of poems with which to practice their calligraphy?

5) Make writing opportunities interesting.

If writing has become a curse instead of a joy, take a break from writing. Read, talk, read, talk, watch movies, read, talk. Then pick a surprising writing activity. Of course a new freewriting prompt left on an empty kitchen table with brand new colored pens and pretty paper sometimes jump starts the reluctant writer as well. Don’t say anything. Just leave it all out and see what happens. Jump in the car and bring journals along. Write at a coffee shop, all of you, together. Change the setting and you’ll change the attitude.

If you shift the power dynamic in your home—giving up some of your power so that those without power get some—you’ll see a shift in the level of joy in your home. It may take some time before they trust that you are truly divesting (not just manipulating them). You have to let go of outcomes and not see this as a strategy. But once they believe you—that you are unequivocally on their side and they know it—they will trust you to give input into their writing and to even make some suggestions of what kinds of writing they may want to attempt or learn.

What an honor to be the one to foster that kind of home environment!

The Homeschool Alliance

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Why Poetry?

Why Poetry

Why poetry?

Lots of parents are intimidated by poetry. They feel inadequate (imagining that poets hide mysteries within their rhymes) to plumb the depths sufficiently for insight and meaning, thinking their kids will not “get it” either. High school poetry units often left many of us scratching our heads rather than savoring language.

In the homeschool, you get to reclaim poetry as a legitimate tool of language arts. Poetry is all about the words: choices, sounds, relationships, punch. Poetry aims to get a message/story across within limits: meter, rhyme, alliteration or assonance (or both!), stanzas, numbers of words. It’s the Sudoku of language!

Here are the ways I recommend you dip your toes into the stream of poetic expression:

1. Read it.

Don’t worry about meanings, themes, alliteration, rhyme schemes or meter. Simply let the words roll around in your mouth. Read the poem and ignore the temptation to wonder at it. Let yourself feel the words. You might only react positively to a word pair or one ending rhyme. That’s perfectly fine! In poems that don’t offer up their meanings easily, start with reading and letting yourself connect to whatever it is that draws your attention. (If nothing does, it’s fine to move on to the next poem. No need to squeeze “blood from a turnip.” You might “get it” some other year.) Also, read it through multiple times before you render a judgment. Poems benefit from multiple readings.

2. Listen to it.

As you read it aloud (or as the poem is read to you), listen to the sounds. Ignore meanings completely. What stands out? Rhyme? Repeated vowel sounds (assonance)? Repeated initial consonant sounds (alliteration)? Repeated consonant sounds throughout the line or poem (consonance)? How about interesting word uses (a noun acting as a verb, or a made-up word like you’ll find in Carroll or cummings)? Is there a rhythm you can anticipate? Can you beat your hand to the sounds – the accented syllables versus the ones that don’t make you slap your leg? Is there a pattern (each line starts with “I wish…” or ends with “…and so it goes”)?

3. Listen to it for word choices.

In addition to noting the sounds, note the word choices. Are there surprises (words used in ways you wouldn’t ordinarily think of them)? Are they plain words (nothing special except they all go together in an interesting way)? Do you find yourself thinking about the way a word is used? Does the poet focus on concrete experiences or metaphor or something else? Is it funny? Why? Puns? Irony? Punchline humor?

4. Meaning or theme?

Now we get down to the point of writing the poem. What’s it about? You can be as superficial as you want. Just get the gist. Consult your kids if you feel stuck. They are surprisingly insightful. Figure out if the poem paints a picture of an emotion or experience, or if it is detailing a story or telling an idea. Perhaps it is commenting on a theme such as patriotism or friendship or love or autumn.

5. Do you like it?

Guess what? No right answers here. If you find it inscrutable, hard to read aloud, beyond your reach intellectually, of course you won’t like it and you don’t have to. It may be that you aren’t the right audience or it could be that you haven’t yet cultivated your poetic “sensibility” enough to get this more sophisticated poem. Remember: there are just some arenas where depth supports understanding (algebra and calculus are two of them; poetry is another). So if it so happens that you can’t appreciate some famous poem all your teachers told you was the best in its genre in 1762, that’s okay! You’re not there yet and you don’t need to be.

When you read poetry with kids, choose books that are high on rhyme, humor and concrete experiences. You’ll know they like it if they want to keep reading more from the same book. If they don’t, pack it up. Send it back to the library and go to the next book. The goal here is enjoyment of language. So many good (subconscious) things are going on in your head and in your kids’ heads when they play with poetry. Serve tea, cookies and a big side of optimism and your poetry experiences will become the highlight of your week. Trust me. I’ve seen it happen thousands of times.

Share favorite poetry books in the comments or ask me questions (or tell your story!). I’d love to hear from you.

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Stop! You don’t have to write every day…

Interact with writing every day

You don’t have to write every day to become a great writer. The old adage: “Write every day” doesn’t apply to your kids. Truth is, it doesn’t even apply to all adult professionals! Writing every day is one of the great writing myths. There is some value to journaling or setting up a daily routine that requires you to write, inspired or not.  And plenty of writers trumpet this practice as a result. The value in the routine is that it helps writers (that is, people who are already proficient at handwriting or typing, who’ve been getting paid for their word counts, who want their vocation or hobby to be writing) get over the usual blocks that come with required creative output. But even adults sometimes need breaks, need time to muse or be still or to simply read for awhile rather than produce.

You’re working with kids. Your kids. Your kidlets who can’t remember how to make a cursive “r,” who still struggle with even spacing between words, who forget that the faint pink line on the right indicates a margin that they must respect by not running it over with letters. These are the writers for whom generating original writing can become the most blocking, anxiety-producing activity of the day—the difference between cheerfulness and tears.

The Brave Writer philosophy says instead:
Interact with writing every day.

That means you can read it, copy it, listen to it being read, or analyze the writing you read. Look at it for why it works: makes you laugh, hooks your attention, delights you, persuades you; look at it for how it’s structured, why it’s whatever length it is, what support is used for its points, the musicality of the language, and so on. You can read writing for the sheer joy of it. Inside your mind, little grooves of how good writing feels and sounds are established so that as you return to your original writing, you find yourself unconsciously imitating those sounds, rhythms and forms.

Give your kids and yourself a break. Read, read, read. Count it as part of your writing program. When you write, let it be from a place of overflow and energy. Freewriting once a week or working on a project per month is the way to keep original writing on the menu of things to do each week. But never let them take over. Interact with writing every day. That’s the Brave Writer mantra.

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