Lots of moms are intimidated by poetry, imagining that poets hide mysteries within their rhymes. They feel inadequate to plumb those depths sufficiently for insight and meaning, thinking their kids will not “get it” either. High school poetry units often left many of us scratching our heads rather than savoring language.
In the homeschool, you get to reclaim poetry as a legitimate tool of language arts. Poetry is all about the words: choices, sounds, relationships, punch. Poetry aims to get a message/story across within limits: meter, rhyme, alliteration or assonance (or both!), stanzas, numbers of words. It’s the Sudoku of language!
Here are the ways I recommend you dip your toes into the stream of poetic expression:
1. Read it.
Don’t worry about meanings, themes, alliteration, rhyme schemes or meter. Simply let the words roll around in your mouth. Read the poem and ignore the temptation to wonder at it. Let yourself feel the words. You might only react positively to a word pair or one ending rhyme. That’s perfectly fine! In poems that don’t offer up their meanings easily, start with reading and letting yourself connect to whatever it is that draws your attention. (If nothing does, it’s fine to move on to the next poem. No need to squeeze “blood from a turnip.” You might “get it” some other year.) Also, read it through multiple times before you render a judgment. Poems benefit from multiple readings.
2. Listen to it.
As you read it aloud (or as the poem is read to you), listen to the sounds. Ignore meanings completely. What stands out? Rhyme? Repeated vowel sounds (assonance)? Repeated initial consonant sounds (alliteration)? Repeated consonant sounds throughout the line or poem (consonance)? How about interesting word uses (a noun acting as a verb, or a made-up word like you’ll find in Carroll or cummings)? Is there a rhythm you can anticipate? Can you beat your hand to the sounds – the accented syllables versus the ones that don’t make you slap your leg? Is there a pattern (each line starts with “I wish…” or ends with “…and so it goes”)?
3. Listen to it for word choices.
In addition to noting the sounds, note the word choices. Are there surprises (words used in ways you wouldn’t ordinarily think of them)? Are they plain Jane words (nothing special except they all go together in an interesting way)? Do you find yourself thinking about the way a word is used? Does the poet focus on concrete experiences or metaphor or something else? Is it funny? Why? Puns? Irony? Punchline humor?
4. Meaning or theme?
Now we get down to the point of writing the poem. What’s it about? You can be as superficial as you want. Just get the gist. Consult your kids if you feel stuck. They are surprisingly insightful. Figure out if the poem paints a picture of an emotion or experience, or if it is detailing a story or telling an idea. Perhaps it is commenting on a theme such as patriotism or friendship or love or autumn.
5. Do you like it?
Guess what? No right answers here. If you find it inscrutable, hard to read aloud, beyond your reach intellectually, of course you won’t like it and you don’t have to. It may be that you aren’t the right audience or it could be that you haven’t yet cultivated your poetic “sensibility” enough to get this more sophisticated poem. Remember: there are just some arenas where depth supports understanding (algebra and calculus are two of them; poetry is another). So if it so happens that you can’t appreciate some famous poem all your teachers told you was the best in its genre in 1762, that’s okay! You’re not there yet and you don’t need to be.
When you read poetry with kids, choose books that are high on rhyme, humor and concrete experiences. You’ll know they like it if they want to keep reading more from the same book. If they don’t, pack it up. Send it back to the library and go to the next book. The goal here is enjoyment of language. So many good (subconscious) things are going on in your head and in your kids’ heads when they play with poetry. Serve tea, cookies and a big side of optimism and your poetry experiences will become the highlight of your week. Trust me. I’ve seen it happen thousands of times.
Share favorite poetry books in the comments or ask me questions (or tell your story!). I’d love to hear from you.
We have adopted the tea time for a couple of years now. It has been amazing to me how much poetry we have covered. My kids can even reconize the poets by their style. All we really did was read poems from anthologies and write out our favorites. My 16 year old daughter is now in school, and in English class they read a poem everyday. So far she has known them all. It baffles her teacher and classmates and she has left it a mystery. She would rather not share she was home schooled and reading poetry. I understand, and I’m just happy she had fun while I had her. Oh, by the way, she loves that part of class.
Poetry tea is an absolute favourite in our house and I am constantly surprised by the children’s choice of poems and how often they will choose the same ones; even my little girl who is not-yet-reading will pick out favourite familiars, finding them because she remembers the pictures!
Some of the most enjoyed books of poetry in our home were borrowed from the library so I don’t have their titles. Some from our shelves which we enjoy are “A Family of Poems” by Caroline Kennedy, the Poetry for Young People series (ex. Emily Dickinson, Robert Browning), “Alligator Pie,” Dennis Lee and “Where the Sidewalk Ends,” Shel Silverstein. My kids prefer the goofy stuff although I do introduce more ‘mature’ poetry on occassion. I agree, though, that I want them to love words, the music of language, and be cautious about making it all too heavy or a drudgery. We do enjoy Shakespeare, too, and although it is not poetry there is a musicality about his writing that feels akin to poetry.
We take turns reading the same poem and I find it interesting how at times the poem comes across different – as my children and I learn where to put the emphasis (does that make sense?). Shel Silverstein is a favorite – we’ve a cd of “Where the Sidewalk Ends” and enjoy listening as we read along. My son likes Christina Rossetti because the first poem he memorized was “Caterpillar”!
No matter what else is going on, somehow on Thursday afternoons we MAKE teatime happen. I have been amazed and delighted at the pleasure my kids have taken in selcting and reading “their” poems. They like Jack Prelutsky, Shel S., various from “Read-Aloud Poems for Young People”. And this past week, my 11yo wrote a limerick and saved it for teatime, which from him is EXCEPTIONAL. Thanks for your continuing inspiration and encouragement.
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