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[Podcast #277] Soul School with Amber O’Neal Johnston

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How much do you love a great book list? The kind that introduces you to stories you never knew you needed? That’s exactly what Amber O’Neal Johnston has created in her latest book, Soul School: Taking Kids on a Joy-Filled Journey Through the Heart of Black American Culture.

Amber O'Neal Johnston
Amber O’Neal Johnston

In today’s Brave Writer podcast episode, we explore the profound impact literature has on shaping identity. We also look at why it’s essential for all children—not just Black children—to engage with stories from diverse perspectives. Amber shares how Soul School isn’t just a book list, but a guide to curating a home library that reflects the richness of Black American:

  • history,
  • culture,
  • and imagination.

We discuss the power of Afrofuturism, the accessibility of poetry, and how parents can thoughtfully introduce new voices into their children’s literary world. If you’re looking for ways to expand your family’s reading life in a meaningful way, this conversation is a must-listen.

Show Notes

How often do we stop and think about the stories that shape our children’s understanding of the world? As parents and educators, we have a profound influence over the books that make their way into our homes, guiding our children’s perspectives and broadening their imaginations. Yet, so often, we reach for the familiar—the books we loved as children, the classics that have been passed down for generations.

But what if we took a step further? What if we intentionally introduced our children to a richer, more expansive literary feast—one that includes voices and histories they may not naturally encounter?

The Power of Literature in Shaping Identity

One of the most striking points Amber makes is how stories shape identity—not just for children of color, but for all children. When a young Black child primarily encounters their ancestors in history books as enslaved people, that narrative becomes deeply ingrained in their sense of self. Similarly, when white children consistently see themselves as the central figures of history and literature, it shapes their understanding of the world and their place in it.

By introducing a wide range of books that celebrate Black joy, resilience, and creativity, we offer all children the opportunity to expand their worldview. We challenge the notion that Black stories exist only in the context of struggle. Instead, we highlight the richness of Black culture, folklore, music, and imagination.

Reading Beyond the Expected: Afrofuturism and More

One of the most fascinating discussions in Soul School is the distinction between Afrofuturism and African Futurism. While both genres reimagine the past and future through a Black lens, African Futurism is deeply rooted in African culture, mythology, and history, unbound by Western narratives. These stories provide an opportunity for children to see worlds where Black characters are not defined by oppression but by adventure, innovation, and possibility.

Amber also emphasizes poetry as a gateway to a more diverse literary landscape. Poets who offer children a way to engage with language in a powerful, emotional, and rhythmic way:

  • Langston Hughes,
  • Maya Angelou,
  • and Nikki Giovanni

Poetry is universal, and its accessibility makes it a perfect entry point for families looking to introduce new voices into their reading routines.

A Call to Curate More Thoughtfully

As parents, we serve as the curators of our children’s literary experiences. If we’re not actively including diverse voices, then the default curation—historically dominated by white authors—will continue to shape our children’s understanding of whose stories matter. Soul School is not just a book list; it’s an invitation to reassess how we build our home libraries.

When we introduce our children to literature from a variety of cultural perspectives, we aren’t just filling in gaps. We’re giving them a fuller, richer, and more accurate picture of the world. We’re preparing them to engage with different perspectives with curiosity, empathy, and understanding.

Amber’s book provides us with a blueprint to do just that. By weaving cultural education into everyday learning rather than treating it as a separate subject, we model for our children the idea that all stories—especially those that have been historically overlooked—are worth reading, discussing, and cherishing.

Expanding Our Children’s World, One Book at a Time

We have the power to offer our children a literary experience that is both expansive and transformative. Whether through poetry, historical narratives, or imaginative Afrofuturist adventures, the books we bring into our homes shape how our children see themselves and the world around them.

Soul School is an incredible resource for any parent or educator looking to enrich their child’s education with literature that goes beyond the expected. By intentionally diversifying the books we read, we give our children the opportunity to build a broader, more inclusive understanding of history, identity, and humanity. And isn’t that one of the greatest gifts we can offer?

Order Soul School today and start weaving cultural education into your family’s everyday learning.

Resources

  • Visit Amber’s website at heritagemom.com
  • Amber is @heritagemomblog on Instagram
  • Learn more about Amber’s book at soulschoolbook.com
  • Our previous interviews with Amber Johnston:
    • Building a Family Heritage through Homeschool with Amber O’Neal Johnston – Part One
    • Building a Family Heritage through Homeschool with Amber O’Neal Johnston – Part Two
    • Building a Family Heritage through Homeschool with Amber O’Neal Johnston – Part Three
  • Check out Julie’s new author website: juliebogartwriter.com!
  • Subscribe to Julie’s Substack newsletters: Brave Learning with Julie Bogart and Julie Off Topic
  • Preorder Julie’s new book, Help! My Kid Hates Writing: How to Turn Struggling Students into Brave Writers
  • Try out our Brave Writer Practice Pages
  • Find our podcast book recommendations in the Brave Writer Book Shop: https://bravewriter.com/book-shop/list/podcast-recommendations
  • Learn more about the Brave Writer Literature & Mechanics programs
  • Read all Brave Writer class descriptions
  • Start a free trial of CTCmath.com to try the math program that’s sure to grab and keep your child’s attention
  • Sign up for our Text Message Pod Ring to get podcast updates and more!
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Connect with Julie

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Monday Morning Meetings

Brave Learning podcasts for kids

We’ve kicked off our five-minute weekly podcast for your kids on Substack!

My goal is to give your kids actionable steps to take control of their learning experience, to make it more meaningful and delightful to them.

The idea is to play the podcast over breakfast and then make a little time that day or later in the week to do the thing.

The first six episodes are FREE:

  • 01 – Hidey Holes helps kids create a “hidey hole” as a study space.
  • 02 – History of YOU teaches your child to think like a historian.
  • 03 – Break a Reading Record encourages kids to read a little longer in one sitting.
  • 04 – Write On—Graffiti! inspires kids to write even when they think they hate it!
  • 05 – Jumping Jack Math gets your children’s bodies involved in math.
  • 06 – Adjectives in Action puts your little performers on the living room stage!

I look forward to supporting you by going direct to your kiddos and inspiring them to be the brave learners you want them to be.

Enjoy!

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[Podcast #276] Freedom from Shame with Parenting Coach Crystal Haitsma

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How does shame shape the way we parent?

In this Brave Writer podcast episode, we sit down with life coach and homeschooling parent Crystal Haitsma to explore how shame influences our parenting—often without our realizing it.

Crystal shares her insights on the difference between guilt and shame, and how we can shift from frustration to curiosity in our relationships with our kids. We also discuss how prioritizing self-compassion can transform both homeschooling and daily life, helping us build stronger connections with our children.

Crystal Haitsma
Crystal Haitsma

If you’ve ever felt discouraged, overwhelmed, or like you’re “not enough” as a parent, this conversation will bring comfort and clarity. Tune in now to learn how to shift your mindset and create a more peaceful home.

Show Notes

Parenting is often described as one of the most rewarding experiences in life—but it’s also deeply vulnerable. No matter how much we prepare, plan, and pour our hearts into raising our children, moments of frustration, self-doubt, and even shame inevitably creep in. We might wonder: Am I doing this right? Why do my kids resist everything I try to offer them? Why do I feel like I’m failing at something so important?

In our conversation with life coach Crystal Haitsma, we explored how shame plays an often-unseen role in parenting. She describes shame as more than just guilt—it’s the deep-seated belief that we are fundamentally not enough. While guilt says, “I did something wrong,” shame whispers, “I am wrong.” And when we parent from a place of shame, it subtly shapes our interactions with our children in ways we might not even realize.

Recognizing Shame in Parenting

Shame in parenting can take many forms. It might show up as exasperation when our kids don’t listen, as self-criticism when the homeschool plan falls apart, or as frustration when our home never seems tidy. It often disguises itself as anger, disappointment, or the belief that if our children’s behavior isn’t ideal, we must be doing something wrong.

Crystal encourages parents to ask, What meaning am I attaching to this? If our children resist our homeschool lessons, does it mean we’ve failed as educators? If they struggle with friendships, does it mean we didn’t prepare them well enough? When we attach our self-worth to our children’s actions, we set ourselves up for an emotional rollercoaster—one that neither we nor our kids signed up for.

Letting Go of the Need for External Validation

One of the most transformative concepts Crystal shares is letting go of the need for external validation, whether from our kids, other parents, or societal expectations. This creates space for a more peaceful, intuitive way of parenting. Instead of fighting against resistance, we can lean in with curiosity. Instead of controlling every aspect of our children’s education, we can trust their natural ability to learn in their own way and time.

What does this look like in practice? It might mean pausing in the midst of morning chaos and saying, Wow, everyone’s bickering today. This isn’t working. What do we need to shift? Instead of forcing a rigid plan, we can collaborate with our children, giving them a voice in their own education and daily rhythms.

Building Shame Resilience

Shame thrives in secrecy and self-judgment. The antidote? Self-compassion. Crystal recommends daily practices like:

  • journaling,
  • meditation,
  • or simply taking five minutes in the morning to check in with yourself before stepping into the role of “parent.”

By making space for our own growth, we increase our emotional capacity and create a home environment rooted in connection rather than control.

Our kids don’t need perfect parents. They need parents who are willing to grow, who model self-awareness, and who show them what it means to navigate life with resilience and self-compassion. When we step away from shame-based parenting, we free ourselves—and our children—to experience the joy of learning, growing, and being human together.

Resources

  • Crystal Haitsma’s website: www.coachcrystal.ca
  • Follow Crystal on Instagram: @the.parenting.coach
  • Check out Julie’s new author website: juliebogartwriter.com!
  • Subscribe to Julie’s Substack newsletters: Brave Learning with Julie Bogart and Julie Off Topic
  • Preorder Julie’s new book, Help! My Kid Hates Writing: How to Turn Struggling Students into Brave Writers
  • Try out our Brave Writer Practice Pages
  • Find our podcast book recommendations in the Brave Writer Book Shop: https://bravewriter.com/book-shop/list/podcast-recommendations
  • Learn more about the Brave Writer Literature & Mechanics programs
  • Read all Brave Writer class descriptions
  • Start a free trial of CTCmath.com to try the math program that’s sure to grab and keep your child’s attention
  • Sign up for our Text Message Pod Ring to get podcast updates and more!
  • Send us podcast topic ideas by texting us: +1 (833) 947-3684

Connect with Julie

  • Instagram: @juliebravewriter
  • Threads: @juliebravewriter
  • Facebook: facebook.com/bravewriter

Connect with Melissa

  • Website: melissawiley.com
  • Substack: melissawiley.substack.com
  • Instagram: @melissawileybooks

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Advice for Newbies – Part Two

Brave Writer Advice for Newbies Part Two

Did you miss Part 1? Here it is.

Plan your days to include the need to reassure yourself you’re doing a good job! That takes more time than we think.

You may need to:

  • Scroll through Instagram for inspiration
  • Read a study about why your child is okay if not reading by five years old
  • Talk on the phone to friends to be sure you aren’t ruining your child

Reassuring yourself that you’re doing a great job or are on the right track IS part of what you need to do as a newbie. It will crowd out other planning and tasks, but that’s okay!

You’ll do the best job of home educating your kids if you feel confident and clear about your choice. Invest in THAT first and your year will go so much smoother!

I believe in you!

Stick around—I’ve got a lot more to share to help you feel successful and peaceful.


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