We write first to know ourselves—our own thoughts, feelings, concerns, ideas. Writing can be its own reward.
I’ve noticed that the least read posts I share are about writing. Ironic, no? Everyone wants to be read. But we all forget that the power of writing is making our OWN thinking visible to ourselves. Writing is first and foremost for YOU! It’s a gift only you can give yourself.
Writing…
- is the way you discover what you really think
- can heal your pain and trauma (research says it heals as well as therapy, and it’s free!)
- is the place to put your risky ideas before you risk expressing them to those who would judge you
- is how you sort out whether or not a lover is the right one for you
- gives you a moment of pause in the day to slow the racing thoughts that run your brain
My best writing has not been read by other people, and my worst writing has never been read by anyone—and I am entirely grateful for that! Also, my journals are private. Secret writing—what a rich gift!
Never underestimate the power of writing in your child’s life.
It’s not about essays or grades or getting into college.
Writing IS the best gift you can give your children for self-knowledge and relief. If nothing else, give them the gift of knowing that writing is there for them when no one else is—no commenter, reader, parent, or friend.
Writing is a witness to our insides, and we all need that loving witness.
