
Reinventing Your Homeschool
Is it okay to abandon a curriculum that worked, just because “fill in the blank”?
Maybe we:
Are tired or bored or nervous.
Have a kid who doesn’t do it the way we did it with the last four, just as we got the hang of it. (Grrr.)
Hear about someone else’s bright idea and doubt everything we’ve ever done, even while our best friend tells us we are perfect as we are. (Sure, Michelle.)
Worry that we’ll lose our friends if we change gears and try something new. (Please, don’t kick me out of forest school because I like the indoors now.)
Know this: It’s always OKAY to reinvent how you home educate.
Lean into it.
Add chocolate if needed.
The Importance of Handwriting in the Age of AI
In this world of AI and voice to text, there’s one essential practice that connects your child to themselves effectively without technological interference. It’s not going outside hours a day or crafting or baking—even though those are great activities for kids.
It’s the power to put your own thoughts into honest words—privately, patiently, slowly, with skill and stamina. And while I’m a huge fan of typing, there’s a therapeutic benefit to writing by hand, old school, too.
Why bother teaching the art of handwriting?
What help is writing by hand to kids who refuse, cry, or complain that their fingers hurt?
Today, handwriting is one of the ways your child can learn about their own mind and thoughts without the suggestions of technology—no supplied words or ideas, no spelling corrections or improvements offered.
Amazingly, the brain loves it too! Handwriting lights up more areas of the brain than typing or voice to text. It anchors memory, focus, and creativity.
One of the ways we grow the handwriting skill is to make a little time and space for it each day. In Brave Writer, we do this through the rhythm of regular copywork and freewriting.
We recommend that you handwrite with your kids too.
- Put on some wordless music.
- Light a candle.
- Then simply write.
Slow the frenetic energy of life to patiently hook up a hand with a mind. See what you discover!
Even if your child struggles with dysgraphia, handwriting can be learned a little at a time. Involve a specialist for handwriting therapies tailored to your child if your child struggles excessively.
But, handwriting is now the key tool in the fight to ensure children and young adults are offering their own thinking. It’s a skill they need.
For parents of teens, check out our webinar:
High School Writing in the Age of AI
[Podcast #324] The Practice of Active Wondering
What happens when we slow down long enough to really wonder?
In this Brave Writer podcast episode, we explore the difference between rabbit trails and rabbit holes—and why both matter in learning and in life. From telephone poles and faded signs to classic children’s literature and everyday neighborhood mysteries, we reflect on how curiosity deepens when we resist quick answers and allow questions to linger.
We talk about:
- active wondering,
- mental stillness,
- and the surprising richness of slow learning in a fast world.
Join us as we rediscover how noticing, wondering, and waiting can transform ordinary moments into meaningful education.
Show Notes
Some of the most meaningful learning moments don’t begin with a lesson plan. They begin with noticing.
When we give ourselves permission to slow down, to look closely at something ordinary, and to ask questions without rushing toward answers, we step into what we like to call active wondering. This kind of curiosity isn’t passive. It’s deliberate, embodied, and alive.
Active wondering shows up when a child stares at a manhole cover and asks who put it there. It shows up when a family notices the numbers stamped on a telephone pole and starts asking why they exist at all. These moments may look like nothing is happening, but something profound is unfolding beneath the surface.
Rabbit Trails and Rabbit Holes
Learning often moves in two complementary ways. Sometimes curiosity skips from one idea to another, forming connections across subjects. These are rabbit trails. One question leads to another, then another, until a web of understanding begins to take shape.
Other times, interest pulls us into a deep dive. A single subject captures attention for weeks or months. That’s a rabbit hole. This kind of immersion allows for mastery, intimacy, and sustained focus.
Both are valuable. Together, they create a learning life that has both breadth and depth.
The Case for Slower Questions
We live in a time when nearly every answer is seconds away. That convenience is extraordinary. It’s also disruptive.
When we look things up too quickly, we sometimes lose the chance to live with a question. We skip the wondering and jump straight to the conclusion. In doing so, we miss the mental work that builds meaning, memory, and connection.
Slow questions invite observation. They ask us to notice patterns, gather context, talk with others, and return to an idea again and again. The answer matters less than the path we take to reach it.
Stillness Is Not Idleness
Active wondering requires space. That space often looks like stillness.
A child sitting quietly may not be disengaged. They may be thinking, imagining, or assembling ideas that haven’t yet found words. When we rush to fill silence with tasks or explanations, we interrupt that process.
Stillness is where creativity is born. It’s where questions arise in the first place.
Seeing the World Anew
Once we practice active wondering, the world becomes richer. Infrastructure turns into history. Small details open doors to big stories. A neighborhood walk becomes an exploration.
We don’t need special materials or elaborate plans. We only need time, attention, and the courage to let questions remain unanswered for a while.
When we model this way of learning for our children, we give them something lasting: the habit of noticing, the patience to wonder, and the confidence to follow curiosity wherever it leads.
Resources
- Listen to our episode on Rabbit Holes and Rabbit Trails
- Find John Stilgoe’s Outside Lies Magic in the Brave Writer Book Shop
- Brave Writer class registration is open!
- Visit Julie’s Substack to find her special podcast for kids (and a lot more!)
- Purchase Julie’s new book, Help! My Kid Hates Writing
- Find community at the Brave Learner Home
- Learn more about the Brave Writer Literature & Mechanics programs
- Start a free trial of CTCmath.com to try the math program that’s sure to grab and keep your child’s attention
- Subscribe to Julie’s Substack newsletters, Brave Learning with Julie Bogart and Julie Off Topic, and Melissa’s Catalog of Enthusiasms
- Sign up for our Text Message Pod Ring to get podcast updates and more!
- Send us podcast topic ideas by texting us: +1 (833) 947-3684
- Interested in advertising with us? Reach out to media@bravewriter.com
Connect with Julie
- Instagram: @juliebogartwriter
- Threads: @juliebogartwriter
- Bluesky: @bravewriter.com
- Facebook: facebook.com/bravewriter
Connect with Melissa
- Website: melissawiley.com
- Substack: melissawiley.substack.com
- Instagram: @melissawileybooks
- Bluesky: @melissawiley.bsky.social
Produced by NOVA
Student Spotlights
Need inspiration? Here’s a look at some of our amazing Brave Writers!
Beginning Writers (ages 5-7)
- Connecting with Kids’ Authentic Voices
- Peter Rabbit Inspired
- Animal Mini Books
- Ben, Alex, and Katey
- The Emperor’s New Clothes
- A Fun Exercise
- A Boy and the Mysterious Clock
- The real gifts of the season
- Revision: Creating a New Lens
Emerging Writers (ages 8-10)
- Cinderella Lap Book
- Creativity Is Contagious
- “Now he wants to be a writer.”
- A Story within a Story and Parenthetical Asides
- Wacky Revision
- The Winter’s Head
- Inspired to Write
- Easing Our Way Back
- Revision Example
- “The funniest way to do dictation EVER”
- Free Verse Success!
Middle School Writers (ages 11-12)
- Sonnet of the Seasons
- Freewriting: How it’s done!
- Keen Observation: Sombrero
- Missing My Friend
- Poetry on the Racquetball Court
- Partnership Writing Activity
- Partnership Writing in Action!
- Passion and Partnership
- Rebagrace
- Wild Words
- Fairytale Writing Assignment
- A Fantasy Football Cinquain!
- A New Model for Teaching Writing
- An Inspiring Young Author – Podcast with Mason Lawler
High School Writers & College Prep (ages 13-18)
- Don’t be a Perfectionist & Other Advice for Young Writers
- Help for High School Success
- Observation of an Orange!
- “She flew with it”
- From Tears to Young Author
- How Home Education Has Made Me The Person I Am
- Reading the Classics
- A College Essay that Works
- Transformation!
- “What feelings and memories do I associate with writing?”
- Revision Tactic: Change the Order
- Brave Writer and the College Admission Essay
- “The beautiful art it truly is”
- Congrats to Our Graduating Seniors
- Passion for Writing
Are Home Educators Entrepreneurs?
I see you!
It takes courage and a little naive confidence to homeschool.
Your faith in the idea that you can create a learning experience for your kids that rivals (or betters!) school is often seen as reckless.
That’s just how entrepreneurs feel and are often seen.
“What a harebrained idea!”
“What makes you think you can do that?”
Despite the nay-sayers, somehow you know you can homeschool! I admire that—entrepreneur to entrepreneur! I believe in your courage and your confidence.
Like a new business owner, it does help to get support and training to do a great job. Brave Writer would love to help you grow your homeschool vision. Join our community, Brave Learner Home, and create a homeschool that brings both joy and academic achievement.





















