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The art of narration in learning

The Art of Narration in Learning

My aunt and uncle live in Italy. She’s American; he’s Italian. They have two kids. Their daughter took her exams to complete junior high in June. My aunt sent me the following email that described what exams for that age group look like:

Lara [my cousin] spent between 2 and 4 hours each day for 4 straight days on her essay tests (not multiple choice) in Italian (Composition), English, French and Math (no essay there, obviously!). That was last week. This afternoon she had her orals in Italian (Literature), History, Geography, Art History, Science, Technical Studies, English, French, Music and Physical Education. (No, I’m not kidding around, they actually had to prepare a several-page report on a sport! She chose figure skating.)

She was in the room (with all the teachers for the above subjects and the Exam Committee Officer, who is a teacher from another school, to prevent partiality) for about 30 minutes, but the first 5 were spent discussing the results of the written tests. In addition to separate presentations on specific topics for Art History, P.E., French and English (she brought pictures of our trip to California last year and talked about most of you guys [the relatives]!), she had to prepare one of the topics covered during the last school year from a multi-disciplinary perspective.

She chose the Cold War and its consequences, and trekked through History (dates, people, policies, causes, effects), Geography (characteristics of the Western and Eastern blocks), Literature (passages dealing with the Cold War, the bomb dropped on Hiroshima and the Viet Nam War) and Science (the atomic bomb and nuclear energy in general) during her presentation. She wasn’t allowed to read any of this. She could look at an outline, but the content all had to be from memory.

I read this litany of objectives and exams, and headed straight for the bottle of Nyquil (drug of choice when I want to knock myself out and sleep through the pain). Argh! The Cold War?! The freaking Cold War in Italian? Okay, I was a bit loopy from the meds, but it sounds harder to do in Italian… doesn’t it?

I clicked out of that screen, mopped the sweat off my forehead, hyperventilated, and then, in a frenzy of irrationality, yanked children off computers, away from TVs and magazines. I hustled my English-speaking chicks to the kitchen table and downloaded as much Cold War info as I could remember directly into their spongy brains, quizzing them every seven seconds to be sure they were retaining my pearls of educational lecture.

We got through it… that momentary panic, the fear of orange-jumpsuits and police locking me up for scholastic neglect. Once I’d ignored the email for about three months, made a cup of tea and spent more than a panicky fifteen minutes castigating myself in my imagination, I did happen to notice some commonalities between our homeschool and Lara’s more organized, traditional school.

In fact we may be achieving similar results and you may too, without having an exam period. And it may be that our kids are not necessarily versed in the Cold War (though mine are now, thankyouverymuch), but they may be able to give this kind of integration to any number of other interests and studies.

Notice, for instance, how important the art of narration is to the Italian system of evaluation. The examiners are looking for the ability to do the following:

  • to orally retell what the student has learned, as well as to write it. Both of these are forms of narration.
  • to form connections between subject areas. Lara (my niece) had to be able to relate the history of the Cold War to geography, science, technology, and literature.
  • to prepare a field of study. Rather than the examiners creating a test that the student must study for blindly (hoping to guess what material is of most interest to the examiner), the student was expected to use materials read and studied during the year to prepare a narrative that wove together what she had learned. Certainly the examiners may have asked questions that would reveal ignorance, but because the exam was oral, she would have a chance to fill in incomplete detail, to add support to a weak assertion, to follow a trail of questions determined by the examiner in dialog (rather than having to guess it).

Whose style of education does this remind you of? (Now that you can breathe again.)

Charlotte Mason, of course! (She’s the British educator who placed great emphasis on the art of narration through oral and written exams.) Charlotte says that narration ought to be a pleasure to the child and that exams ought to be a chance to reveal what the student knows rather than to expose what a child has not yet mastered.

How can we apply this idea of narrating and mastery to the way our kids learn? In the Brave Writer Lifestyle, we take each area of interest and explore it as far as a child’s interest and enthusiasm carry us. As we do, we provide opportunities to talk and write about those interests (using freewriting, conversations, even presentations if appropriate) to give language to those interests and fields of study.

Narration lets us know that the child is learning, that he or she has taken in information and can now make connections. Some children thrive on conversation while others gear up for a more formal examination. We’ve done both. One year, for fun, I used a tape recorder and in December, right before Christmas, I prepared some open-ended exam questions in four areas: literature, history, math and poetry. The kids got to sit alone with me and tell me in their own words as much as they could about the things we’d studied together while I recorded their answers. To a child, they loved this. It was very gratifying to me at the time as well to listen to them formulate answers, to put things together in a narrative whole. I was repeatedly surprised at which aspects of the topic they retained and how those fit with their overall schema of life.

We’ve also used freewriting as a kind of narration exam. After studying a period of history or a novel, I’ll suggest freewriting all that can be remembered (perhaps with a question to help focus the writing) about that historical period or book. Sometimes that little bit of closure gives both mom and child a lift!

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Poetry

You can’t write poetry on the computer. ~Quentin Tarantino

Poets are soldiers that liberate words from the steadfast possession of definition. ~Eli Khamarov, The Shadow Zone

Ink runs from the corners of my mouth
There is no happiness like mine.
I have been eating poetry.
~Mark Strand, “Eating Poetry,” Reasons for Moving, 1968

Out of the quarrel with others we make rhetoric; out of the quarrel with ourselves we make poetry. ~W.B. Yeats

“Therefore” is a word the poet must not know. ~André Gide

It is the job of poetry to clean up our word-clogged reality by creating silences around things. ~Stephen Mallarme

Even when poetry has a meaning, as it usually has, it may be inadvisable to draw it out…. Perfect understanding will sometimes almost extinguish pleasure. ~A.E. Housman

Poetry is when an emotion has found its thought and the thought has found words. ~Robert Frost

Genuine poetry can communicate before it is understood. ~T.S. Eliot, Dante, 1920

It is a sad fact about our culture that a poet can earn much more money writing or talking about his art than he can by practicing it. ~W.H. Auden

A poet’s work is to name the unnamable, to point at frauds, to take sides, start arguments, shape the world, and stop it going to sleep. ~Salman Rushdie

From: Quote Garden

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Checking Boxes

This past week, I received several emails from moms who want to be more relaxed in their approach to home education but who feel like “type A” mommas. They like to make to do lists, and to check off activities, to know they’ve accomplished stuff. How do they make life more relaxed without feeling out of control, unable to set a goal and see it fulfilled?

It’s true that some curricula lends itself to check boxes. You can say “read pages 100-152 by Friday” with a little box next to it and you’ll know that it was finished when the child marks it with an ‘X’.

So can a more structured personality run a more relaxed homeschool? Yes! We just need to update the content of those little check lists. What if you made a ‘to do’ list that looked more like this?

___ I made each of my kids laugh today.

___ I found a way to get one of my kids to say “That was so much fun!”

___ We read aloud and I heard the words I read, and noticed one great simile and one great word pair.

___ We followed one rabbit trail today (someone brought up a subject that made me stop what I was doing to go do a google search, to look for a movie or book on the topic, to talk about it and follow it up with a plan of some kind).

___ We used one freewrite prompt.

___ I hugged each of my kids.

___ I listened to one child tell me a long story about something important to him.

___ I learned how to do something today that one of my kids taught me.

___ I read a blog or book or magazine about relaxed schooling.

___ I didn’t do one thing that I hate to do.

___ I didn’t make my kids do _________ today.

___ I did one thing that made me supremely happy today.

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Friday Freewrite: Write 100 words on….

the back of your favorite book.

Pretend you are a famous author who is asked to write a blurb about your favorite book which will be put on the back so that others will want to read it. (You might want to read the backs of some books to get a feel for what kinds of writing these famous authors write when reviewing a friend’s book!)

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Get that Education You Really Want

Mom is learning too

The whole family is learning all the time.

Navajo rugs littered my kitchen table right before naptime. Three little faces smiled up at me with smears of glue on their chins and clippings of construction paper stuck to their t-shirts. We were KONOS homeschoolers and that month, we were firmly ensconced in the Indians unit (Native Americans, really, but I think we weren’t using that nomenclature consistently yet). I had boundless energy for homeschooling in the days when my children were small (6, 4 and toddler). I had hand-drawn a big map of North America that I hung smack in the middle of the living room wall. The map showed color-coded hunting regions for each major Indian tribe or nation. Yeah, I know. Haven’t done it since.

Reality: The kids looked at that map every morning and yet, I guarantee none of them remembers today the names of the tribes, the regions where they hunted, the little paper rugs we made or the original habitats we created in shoe boxes. But I do. I loved all that stuff.

One day at naptime, we read about the Battle of Little Bighorn and the courageous acts of Sitting Bull. My toddler had long since collapsed on my breast. I thrust the nearest scrap of paper (ever ready and willing on my living room floor) into the book to hold my place and cautiously carried the big lug into his bedroom. I hurried the more reluctant 4 and 6 year olds to their beds, flipping on the cassette player with Disney tunes to keep them quiet.

Then, as a woman possessed, I raced back to the couch where three pacifiers and six Legos “greeted” my eager body. Once I’d cleared the couch of debris, I popped the book back open, laid my head against a pillow… and read for an hour. I had to know what happened at that battle. I had to know what Custer’s Last Stand meant and why the Sioux Indians were outraged against our military.

I suddenly realized how hungry for information I had been.

Mind food. It was as if all those years of pregnancy, nursing and baby care came screeching to a halt for an hour and my now subdued, hormonal brain roared back to life. I read with a vengeance.

I finished the chapter before anyone woke up, deeply satisfied.

That’s when I saw the truth:

I wanted to be home educated. I wanted to know things. I reflected with a bit of horror, honestly, that even with a degree in history from UCLA, there were still all kinds of histories I had not studied, had not retained, had not cared about then… but I cared about them now.

Get the Education You Really Want

I loved learning!

I asked myself:

Who is interested in this material? Who wants to learn it?

I did. I wanted to learn about everything!

Then I wondered to myself:

Do the kids need to learn it just because I think it’s interesting, because a curriculum says so, because they should learn it?

A trickier answer followed and it took years to flesh itself out.

Kids love to learn. They’re open to all kinds of information, projects, events, books, movies, experiences. But they aren’t adults. Their ability to assimilate and use the information we give them is not comparable to ours. They live in what I call “first exposure” stage (where they hear about things for the first time, where they lay groundwork for second and third exposures), while we parents live at the other end of the continuum – the synthesis stage where we make extensive connections and fill in gaps almost effortlessly.

Exposure is great (needed, valuable, important). It’s not the same as mastery. In fact, unwanted exposure, first exposure mishandled can have an undermining effect, deterring a child from wanting to take a second look later when more mature.

So I faced a dilemma early in my homeschooling career. What is the purpose of homeschooling our kids?

  • Is it to satisfy my renewed enthusiasm for learning things I haven’t learned well?
  • Is it a chance to give my kids what I didn’t get assuming that I could have “gotten it” if I had been home educated?
  • Is it about “covering” some set of criteria by the time they’re 18, as though if they haven’t gotten to it by then, they’ll never get it?
  • Or is their education about them as they are now, their needs, their abilities, their first exposures?

If you have that hunger to know, feed it. Live it in front of your children.
Let them see how it’s done.

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Over time, I saw that my desire to homeschool could not be a substitute for my personal hunger to flesh out my education. The education of my children had to be about them – their readiness, interest, capacity to retain, their hunger to know. But if in that process I discovered what I’d like to learn, if the homeschool catalogs advertised fabulous books and aspects of history, art and science I had somehow missed as a child, I could fill in my own gaps without making my children learn them just so that I could learn them now.

I also saw that just because I deemed something valuable to know didn’t mean it was valuable to know as a child. All learning and exposures didn’t have to happen by age 18, as I was proving in my own adulthood.

It was at that point that we went from school-at-home where mom was the curriculum director, educator, and principal (and the kids were the students) to home education (mom and kids both on a learning journey – sometimes shared, sometimes parallel, sometimes kids teach and mom learns, sometimes mom teaches and kids learn). The curriculum is as diverse and varied as the world around us.

If you have that hunger to know, feed it. Live it in front of your children. Take time for it. Read books, study, use the middle of the day to watch that PBS special on art history or to go to a bird watching training. Let your children see how it’s done. Being an engaged learner for your own sake is the most important lesson your kids can learn from you… that learning is a lifetime habit and source of joy, and that it’s important enough to demand your time and energy. They’ll be fine, sitting on the floor playing with Legos while you get a full drink of French Impressionist painters. Promise.

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