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Teatime Quiddler


Teatime Quiddler
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Hi Julie,
I couldn’t resist sending this photo from three years ago. At the time we wrote a poem called Tea and Quiddler to send you with the photo . The poem was lost and the photo never was sent. It was written after we read Jabberwocky, so it we are unable to duplicate it, it was silly. You are welcome to share the photo on your blog if you can get it turned up right. 🙂 (Which I did!)

We modified the game to suit out needs when William and Anna were younger. They are now 13 and 9 making larger words and still having fun with Quiddler.

Quiddler is a great game for everyone.
Kay

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Winter Class Schedule is now up!

Check it out here.

We’re offering Kidswrite Basic, Kidswrite Intermediate, the Just So Stories, the Expository Essay, and the SAT/ACT Essay. Registration opens at noon on November 13.

I have a wonderful teatime post to add later on Tuesday so look for it.

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Winter class schedule

is about to be posted. Look for it here and on the site Monday night or early Tuesday morning.

We spent the weekend with our gorgeous, wonderful, smart college daughter, Johannah. 🙂 I have no time to write a blog entry so this will have to suffice. Hope your fall weekend was glorious.

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Friday Freewrite: Fall

Friday Freewrite

Write about fall where you are. Include real details (if fall where you live is sunny, warm and filled with cacti, share that). Include sights, smells and tactile sensations (the gooey insides of pumpkins, the crunch of fall leaves underfoot, the dry husks of corn…).

New to freewriting? Check out our online guide.

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One Thinging High School: Principles 1-3

One Thinging Highschool

Previously I shared about our two oldest kids (Noah and Johannah) and their very different approaches to their teen years. Today, let’s talk philosophy. Let’s extract a few principles. We’ll look at these principles in sets of three until I’ve exhausted what I hoped to share. So without further ado, here are the first three principles.

1. Teens need adventure.

The family home is often too confining for teenagers. Their primary need between 13 and 17 is to get out into the big world right outside their door. The truth is, they have far more energy than their parents, boundless curiosity for things we take for granted (having already experienced them), and an insatiable need to relate to peers (in order to figure stuff out, like, what it takes to be a good friend, how to manage gossip, what’s cool and what’s not, what it means to manage myself, where to find good music, and who in the world out there is like me and can join me in my interests?).

They also want to do big things, like:

  • throwing pots
  • designing logos
  • writing articles that get published
  • mixing chemicals
  • traveling to a foreign country
  • flipping burgers at McDonald’s
  • backpacking in the mountains
  • driving a car

And so on. To accommodate this need for adventure, teens deserve to go places where they connect to their peers and other adults away from the supervising eyes of their parents. It doesn’t matter if they get a job, do an internship, go to school part time, take a college class, join an acting company, participate in a sports team or band, work out at a rock climbing gym, or volunteer at a local hospital. They need time away that stimulates them.

2. Teens aren’t lazy, they’re bored.

Laziness is usually a disguise for disinterest. When your child spends hours typing lyrics into his facebook but won’t do copywork from a classic novel, laziness is not the issue. Content is.

Another example: To beat multiple levels in Sims or Halo 3 or Warcraft requires hours of sustained repetitive tasks that are tedious and mostly unrewarding at the lower levels. Somehow teens are willing to plug in all that time dragging and clicking a mouse or controller in order to get to a level that they consider more prestigious and rewarding, yet they grumble about the boring 15 math problems. Why is that? Because the teen does find that the stimulation of these games outweighs the tedium. Not so with the math homework he’s done in the same style notebook for six years.

Subjects that are especially dry and repetitive benefit the most from tutorials, classes (both in person or online), small learning groups, co-operatives and passionate competent adults.

Farm out the subjects that fail to inspire your teens so that those topics have a fair chance for success.

If it’s impossible to find meaning and/or passion in a required subject, make it as painless as possible – don’t double it up with other tedious subjects, don’t require A’s or perfect work, don’t do the advanced version of the subject, or conversely, do it over the summer by itself so it doesn’t ruin the school year.

3. Teens have interests that interest them.

I remember when I worried that Noah was not doing “anything” I could count for his college transcript. A friend asked me, “Well, does he have cool interests?” That was an odd answer to my worry. I responded, “Well, yeah. He studies Klingon, is teaching himself electric guitar, plays Role Playing Games, and acts in plays… but how is that helpful?” I found out.

I’m still discovering how these interests have sustained him. He made friends through acting and RPGs, he discovered linguistics (now his major) through Klingon, he still plays music for pleasure and he has an extensive CD collection. 🙂 Yesterday on the phone as we talked about college, his chief frustration with his schedule is that he wants more time to read books and study music apart from his class schedule. He said, “I have really strong interests and I miss having more time to put into them.” Well yeah. That’s what happens when you grow up. It is harder now.

I was suddenly glad that he took time in his teens to develop those interests while he still could. He’ll never get those years back.

Isn’t it worth it to let teens do the stuff they love while food and beds are still provided to them for free?

Don’t you wish you had had more time to do the stuff you wanted to do? (Don’t forget how many hours you spent on the phone or walking through the mall or sitting by the pool with friends. Today they call it facebook, texting and AIM. It’s how teens learn the art of relationships, a critical high school course of study that homeschooling kids need as much as any of their peers.)

These first three principles focus on seeing the world through a teenager’s eyes. Their perspective matters. Boredom isn’t something to scorn. Laziness isn’t typical of teens (they need lots of sleep, and sometimes they look exhausted), but the truth is, they are gung-ho when they’re interested. I rarely see a lazy teen on the ski slopes, in a water park, at a concert, or playing online games. Teens in most of my classes exert huge amounts of effort to write well, to turn things in on time, to execute their work with care. The ones who don’t aren’t lazy. They aren’t interested. There’s a difference. Make more space for passionate engagement and reduce the tedium of tasks that tire.

As you look at your teens, the one thing you can do right away is identify which of these principles you can act on. Don’t feel you must do them all at once.

Just start “one thing” at a time.

UPDATE: Here are Principles 4-5.

Brave Writer Online Writing Class Nature Journaling

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