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[Podcast #298] Wise Effort with Diana Hill  

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Have you ever felt exhausted from giving your all, yet still worried you aren’t doing enough?

In this Brave Writer podcast episode, we’re joined by Dr. Diana Hill, clinical psychologist, podcast host, and author of Wise Effort: How to Focus Your Genius Energy on What Matters Most. Diana shares her refreshing, science-based approach to reclaiming our natural strengths and using our “genius energy” wisely, rather than trying to fix ourselves or do more.

Dr. Diana Hill
Dr. Diana Hill

We explore:

  • how our gifts can sometimes get off track,
  • why honoring paradox and values leads to better solutions,
  • and how building wise habits starts with small moments of self-awareness.

Diana’s wisdom encourages us to embrace interdependence and resilience, transforming not just ourselves but our communities.

Listen to the full episode for more practical strategies and inspiration from Diana Hill on how to bring wise effort—and more joy—into your family and life.

Show Notes

A New Approach to Genius Energy

Diana Hill challenges the cultural obsession with self-improvement. Rather than suggesting we “fix” ourselves, she encourages us to notice and honor the unique “genius energy” already present in each of us—those qualities and strengths that come naturally, whether it’s emotional sensitivity, persistence, idea generation, or being a calming presence. Her approach blends psychological science with a touch of the mystical, encouraging us to see our personalities not as problems to be solved but as gifts to be directed with wisdom.

When Our Gifts Go Off Track

One of Diana’s key insights is that our greatest strengths are often double-edged swords. That genius quality—be it creativity, responsibility, or drive—can help us flourish, but when we overuse or misuse it, we risk burnout and disconnection. Diana outlines how our genius can go off track: when we get stuck in old stories about ourselves, when we use our strengths to avoid discomfort, or when we cling too tightly to familiar roles and routines. The solution is not to abandon these gifts but to become more skillful and flexible in their use.

Embracing Paradox, Prioritizing Values

Through her Wise Effort podcast and writing, Diana encourages us to welcome the paradoxes of life. We can hold multiple values at once—creativity and order, solitude and connection, responsibility and rest. Instead of treating these as conflicts to be resolved, she guides us to experiment and reflect, finding creative solutions that align with our values and our family’s needs. Sometimes, as Diana shares from her own homeschooling experience, that means brainstorming ways to honor both a child’s creative messiness and a parent’s need for calm, perhaps by moving the activity outside or creating new routines together.

Building Wise Habits, Moment by Moment

Diana’s “wise habits” framework is a refreshing alternative to traditional habit advice. Rather than rigid routines, she focuses on “choice points”—those moments when we notice ourselves drifting from our values. By pausing and checking in with our inner awareness (what Diana calls the “heart-mind”), we can make small, compassionate shifts that lead to more meaningful, regenerative effort.

The Beauty of Interdependence

Perhaps Diana’s most powerful message is the importance of interdependence. Drawing on ideas from Buddhist teacher Thich Nhat Hanh, she reminds us that resilience and growth come from our connections with friends, family, and community. When we seek help, offer support, and allow others to shine in their genius, we all thrive.

Through Diana Hill’s lens of wise effort, we’re invited to move beyond exhaustion and perfectionism, discovering more joy, creativity, and connection in our daily lives. Her work is a timely reminder that our energy is precious, and when directed with wisdom, it can transform both ourselves and those we love.

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[Podcast #297] Chronicle Your Homeschool Adventure

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Do you ever find yourself wondering what you’ve truly accomplished in your homeschool? Chronicling—through blogs, scatterbooks, journals, quick notes, or even voice memos—offers families a way to:

  • celebrate growth,
  • capture memories,
  • and gain confidence in the learning journey.

In this Brave Writer podcast episode, we discuss the many forms of chronicling, how it transforms our outlook from focusing on what’s missing to noticing the richness of what’s already happened, and why the tools you choose should fit your style and life.

Whether it’s a scatterbook, a five-year diary, or a few lines in your phone, recording your days can turn fleeting moments into lasting meaning.

Show Notes

Turning Memories into Meaningful Records

When we take time to record our days—whether through a blog, journal, calendar, or even voice notes—we create a rich archive of experiences. This archive isn’t just for nostalgia; it’s a living resource our families can return to, sparking memories and insights that would otherwise be lost. What may have seemed like ordinary days become treasured stories, reminding us of moments we’d likely have forgotten: a funny comment on the way to the grocery store, a spontaneous science lesson in the backyard, or the first time a child read aloud on video.

The act of chronicling is more than just keeping records—it helps us see the depth and variety in our homeschool lives. Looking back, we’re often surprised by how much we’ve truly done, even when it didn’t feel like much at the time.

Choosing Your Tools, Honoring Your Style

Chronicling doesn’t require a perfect system or daily commitment. The best approach is the one that feels natural to you and your family. Some parents love to write blogs or keep detailed journals; others prefer quick notes on a phone calendar, voice memos, or even scatterbooks filled with lists, ticket stubs, and little observations. For some, a five-year diary or a private digital archive can provide structure and a sense of continuity. The important thing is to choose tools that invite you to participate, not ones that feel like another chore.

Today’s technology also makes chronicling more accessible than ever. Searchable blogs, note-taking apps, and even AI-powered tools can help us organize, reflect, and rediscover recurring themes in our homeschool journey. It’s easier than ever to trace a thread of learning, see which interests keep resurfacing, and adjust our plans accordingly.

The Transformative Power of Looking Back

One of the most powerful outcomes of chronicling is the shift from focusing on deficits—what hasn’t happened yet—to celebrating what has happened. Especially in homeschooling, it’s tempting to zero in on gaps, unfinished curriculum, or developmental timelines. But when we look back through our records, we see real growth, creativity, and resilience. We’re reminded of challenges overcome, joyful moments shared, and how our children—and we ourselves—have grown in ways that don’t always fit into neat checkboxes.

Regular reflection also primes us to notice more beauty and meaning as it happens. By cultivating a habit of jotting down stories, conversations, or little victories, we become more present and attentive to the richness of ordinary days.

Start Small, Celebrate Often

Chronicling your homeschool adventure doesn’t need to be overwhelming. Start small: a weekly note, a funny quote, a photo, or a single sentence. With time, these fragments build a mosaic that tells the story of your unique family journey. The practice isn’t about perfection or completeness; it’s about creating touchstones that encourage, affirm, and inspire you.

In the end, chronicling is a gift to yourself and your children—a tangible way to honor the life you’re building together, one day at a time.

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[Podcast #296] Bad Writing Assignments

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Do you ever wonder if the writing assignments your child receives are actually supporting their growth—or just making writing feel like a chore?

In this Brave Writer podcast episode, we explore why it’s not only okay but essential to judge and adapt writing assignments for your kids.

We talk about:

  • how rigid or uninspiring tasks can stifle self-expression,
  • why playful and flexible approaches unlock learning,
  • and how you can confidently take charge of your child’s writing journey.

We also share practical tips for adapting assignments and supporting your child’s natural development as a writer.

Show Notes

Why It’s Okay to Judge Writing Assignments

Many parents assume that published writing curricula are above critique. But the truth is, you are the best judge of what works for your child. If an assignment feels pointless, uninspiring, or overly rigid, trust your instincts. We want to give you full permission to step back, assess the purpose of each activity, and decide if it serves your learner. If it doesn’t, you can absolutely adapt, skip, or replace it with something better.

How “Bad” Assignments Get in the Way

Some writing programs treat language as a formula—build a sentence word by word, or force a child to describe a dirt clod or write three perfectly formed sentences. These exercises can sap all the joy out of writing and put unnecessary pressure on kids. When assignments are boring and high-pressure, children are left frustrated or blocked. The truth is, kids already know how to play with language. We don’t need to “dumb it down” or make it overly mechanical. Instead, we can capitalize on their natural ability for playful expression and curiosity.

Embracing Flexibility and Self-Expression

The best writing grows from genuine interest and meaningful conversation. Rather than asking your child to fill in lines on a worksheet or stick to a restrictive outline, give them space to explore their ideas. Use tools like jotting down their spoken words, brainstorming together, or allowing them to choose topics that matter to them. Encourage creativity—even quirky approaches like writing sideways or using colored pens can unlock inspiration. Remember: writing isn’t about ticking off boxes; it’s about communicating ideas in a way that feels alive and authentic.

Support, Not Surveillance

We believe that writing is best taught the way we support language acquisition in toddlers: with patience, modeling, and lots of practice. Give your kids permission to make mistakes, write rough drafts, and revise at their own pace. Be a conversation partner, not just an evaluator. Ask open-ended questions, explore ideas together, and let your kids see you engaging in the messy, creative process of writing yourself.

You Have the Power to Adapt

If your child is assigned an uninspiring topic or a rigid format, you are allowed to make changes. Choose a new subject, bend the rules, or even skip the assignment. Writing instruction should be tailored to your child’s needs, interests, and natural learning style. Above all, prioritize the relationship your child is developing with words, ideas, and their own voice.

Let’s champion a writing life that prioritizes discovery, delight, and genuine communication. When we give ourselves permission to judge (and improve) writing assignments, we set our kids up for a lifetime of confident self-expression.

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[Podcast #295] Brave Writer Lifestyles of the Educationally Rich

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Do you ever wonder how to create a homeschool life that feels rich and connected, rather than just checking off boxes?

In this podcast episode, we explore the Brave Writer Lifestyle—moving beyond rigid schedules to routines that foster:

  • connection,
  • flexibility,
  • and joy in daily learning.

We discuss how to anchor your days with simple routines, value real-life learning, adapt to your family’s needs, and protect space for inspiration and downtime. The conversation highlights the power of memory-making moments and the freedom to design a homeschool experience that is meaningful for both parent and child.

Show Notes

A Lifestyle of Learning, Not Just Schooling

We often find ourselves answering questions like, “What curriculum should I buy?” or “How do I schedule my homeschool day?” These questions, while practical, can sometimes miss the point. Homeschooling isn’t just about transferring school to the home—it’s about crafting a unique family culture that reflects your values, rhythms, and needs. Home is not a school, and our homes should feel fundamentally different from a classroom. Instead of rigid schedules, we advocate for routines that flow with your family’s natural energy and allow for flexibility, connection, and joy.

The Power of Routines Over Schedules

One of the most powerful tools we’ve discovered is the routine—a predictable pattern that provides security without the rigidity of a minute-by-minute schedule. We often anchor our days around meals, using breakfast, lunch, and dinner as natural gathering points. These “hooks” in the day help us organize learning in a way that feels organic. For example, mornings might start with quiet play or a favorite creative activity, followed by poetry or read-aloud time during breakfast. Lessons, explorations, and hands-on projects find their rhythm in these predictable pockets, but always with the freedom to adapt based on the needs and interests of the moment.

Embracing Flexibility and Connection

Flexibility is at the core of the Brave Writer Lifestyle. Our routines adapt as our families grow and circumstances change—whether that’s accommodating a working parent, a new baby, or shifting seasons of interest. We prioritize connection: learning together, embracing curiosity, and making time for the “pearls” of memory-making that will stand out years from now. Whether it’s reading on the couch, a spontaneous nature walk, or diving into a creative project, we cherish these moments that foster both learning and relationship.

Letting Real Learning Shine Through

The most meaningful education often happens in unexpected ways—while reciting a poem at bath time, learning about birds from the backyard, or discussing rock history on a car ride. We give ourselves permission to value these experiences as much as any workbook. Instead of measuring our success by completed checklists, we look for evidence of understanding in our children’s everyday discoveries and passions. The Brave Writer Lifestyle is not about perfection, but about cultivating a home environment where learning is alive, enjoyable, and deeply personal.

Protecting Space for Downtime and Inspiration

Finally, we guard unstructured time in our days. Children (and parents) need room for boredom, creativity, and inspiration to take root. By resisting the temptation to fill every moment with activities, we make space for the connections and creative sparks that define a rich homeschool life.

By focusing on routines that suit our family culture, embracing flexibility, and celebrating authentic learning moments, we build an educational experience that supports both our children’s growth and our own enjoyment of parenthood.

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[Podcast #294] Make Grammar, Punctuation, and Spelling Stick—with Books!

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Do you ever wonder why some learning experiences “stick” while others fade away?

In this Brave Writer podcast episode, we explore how grammar, punctuation, and spelling can come alive through brief, meaningful conversations and playful discovery—far from the world of endless worksheets.

We discuss:

  • the power of “quick dips” in learning,
  • the magic of using favorite books as a playground for curiosity,
  • and the importance of connection in helping knowledge grow naturally.

By making room for authentic curiosity and everyday conversations, we can nurture a love of language that lasts. Tune in for practical ideas and a refreshing perspective on making language arts meaningful at home.

Show Notes

Learning Happens in Relationship

At the heart of meaningful learning is relationship. Our children learn not only through materials but through the time and attention we offer them. Just as they picked up skills like eating with utensils or brushing their teeth through countless small interactions—not formal lessons—so too can they absorb the mechanics of writing and language. These “two-minute drills” scattered throughout the day do more than you might think, laying a foundation that lasts a lifetime.

Quick Dips Over Deep Dives

There’s a common belief that mastery comes from hours of drills or intensive lessons, especially in subjects like grammar. But research tells us that a child’s attention span is, at best, their age plus a minute. The magic often happens in “quick dips”—short, focused bursts of conversation and discovery. Two minutes spent discussing a comma, an unusual word, or the punctuation in a favorite book passage can be far more effective than an hour spent on worksheets. These brief but regular dips build knowledge naturally, bit by bit, making learning feel less like a chore and more like an adventure.

Using Literature as Our Playground

When we use books our children love as the starting point, we transform grammar and punctuation from abstract concepts into meaningful experiences. Every passage in a book—whether chosen at random or with purpose—becomes a treasure trove of questions: What words stand out? What punctuation marks shape the meaning? What mood does this passage create, and how does the author achieve that? We invite our children to notice, to wonder, and to play detective with language. Even a disliked passage can become a “level up” challenge in critical thinking!

Authentic Curiosity Fuels Growth

Children are naturally driven to explore the things that interest them. When learning feels personal, they are willing to push through challenges, take breaks and return, or even ask for help when needed. The same persistence and creativity they use to master skills like roller skating or coding can be harnessed for language, spelling, and writing—if we let curiosity lead the way.

Every Conversation Counts

We don’t need to save our best questions for “school time.” Discussions about language can happen at the dinner table, during car rides, or while brushing teeth. The aliveness of these moments—their spontaneity, their relevance to our actual lives—helps make learning meaningful and memorable. Instead of seeking out the perfect program, we focus on building a family culture where books, words, and ideas are woven into our days.

The Brave Writer Approach

Our mission is to support families in bringing this kind of living, connected learning to life. Through our programs and resources, we offer not just content, but discussion questions and strategies to turn any book, passage, or even billboard into a learning opportunity. The goal isn’t to produce perfect grammar for the sake of a test, but to help our kids discover how language creates worlds, sparks imagination, and gives voice to who they are.

Let’s keep looking for the moments when learning feels alive—and trust that it’s in these small, joyful interactions that true understanding is born.

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